A year of maybe...
Happy New Year my dears!
Another pandemic year is behind us, but it remains part of us - deep in our bones and our psyches, and probably even in our DNA and our cells - trauma does that. We can't just "kick 2021 to the curb". We are not the same as we were when it started and we can't erase that.
At the same time, we love fresh starts. So New Year - our collective fresh start, full of hope and promise and expectation and possibility.
Personally, I have no resolutions to improve myself. I have no intentions. No goals or 10 point plan to live my best life or be my best me or whatever. I have a
lot of maybes... maybe this year I will begin to learn how to cook
without so much dependence on recipes. Maybe this will be the year I
knit a sweater. Maybe this year the misophonia won't bother me so much. Maybe I'll change the name of my blog to "Controlled Burns and Forced Blooms".
At the beginning of 2021, I had such hope along with a wait and see perspective for the year. The start of 2022 feels more like a deep sigh and "I'm almost 61, and I want to get some shit done so, fuck it, I have to stop waiting".
Nadia Bolz-Weber's New Year's blessing summed it up for me:
"May you expect to get so little out of 2022 that you can celebrate every single thing it offers you, however small".
My blessing for you all:
May you all have delight and disappointment and joy and wonder and boring times too. May you make regular time to rest, create, play. Do the best you can. May we all have a beautiful, terrible year together.
(Thank you Kate Bowler for "beautiful, terrible")